When the judgment of others is left unchallenged in the heart of a person it runs rampant destroying the ability to love and be loved. Don’t be misled what happens in the hidden places matters. As long as judgment is befriended it will be impossible to love others and even to find comfort in your own skin. Leave the judgement to God. As you love others God will do any correcting that’s needed, out of authority, love, and power, not petty self righteousness. Just sayin’